By Barry Gilreath, Jr.
Recently I came across the following 12 rules for a happy marriage that had been given by the well-known Ann Landers in her weekly article. Although to my knowledge, Mrs. Landers has never obeyed the gospel of Christ, I believe she set forth twelve practical suggestions that will promote a happier home environment. These twelve rules are no doubt biblical. I have included scripture references with each rule that affirms such:
Yield to the wishes of the other as an exercise in self-discipline, if you can't think of a better reason (Col. 3:18-19; Ephesians 5:21)
If you have a choice between making yourself or your spouse look good--choose your spouse (Philippians 2:3-4; Matthew 19:19)
If you feel you must criticize do so lovingly (Ephesians 4:15)
Never bring up a mistake of the past (Philippians 3:13-14)
Neglect the whole world rather than each other (Ephesians 5:25-31)
Never let the day end without saying at least one complimentary thing to your life partner (Proverbs 31:26)
Never meet without an affectionate greeting (Proverbs 5:18-19)
When you make a mistake, talk it out and ask for forgiveness (James 5:16)
Remember, it takes two to make an argument. The one who is wrong is the one who will be doing most of the talking (James 3:5-8)
Never go to bed mad (Ecclesiastes 7:9; Colossians 3:8)